OK, OK. Weddings are not competitions. And they certainly do not have any real impact on the ultimate success of your marriage. But, if you’re a modern bride-to-be, chances are you may be feeling the pressure to out-do Carrie Bradshaw and Princess Diana. Brides today are inundated with advice to stay a step ahead of the trends on their journeys to the altar, even at the expense of becoming exhausted, confused and downright frustrated with the entire affair!

Funny thing about being the bride-to-be ... it seems like the whole world revolves around you and your pending trip down the aisle. Yet, the socially conscious, consumer-savvy, politically engaged, globally aware woman you are maintains that the rest of the world still has "issues" requiring attention regardless of whether or not you say "I do." These people — family and friends — are spending so much energy on your big day, and they're taking their cues from you; use this for a greater good.

Engagement ring? Check.

Wedding to-do list? Check.

Taffeta color swatches for the girls? Check.

Need a nap? You know it!